At this point in my life, I feel as if I have experienced an awakening. One sometimes relates an awakening to a nirvana or zen state of mind, yet no! I have awoke to a hell of which it seemed I was dreaming and only when I removed myself from a situation was I able to see the shape my life has become. The struggle continues and I expect it to do so for the rest of my life. My struggle is my my own, I OWN it. Thank God I finally do.
My main concern tonight is not so much a struggle with drugs, alcohol or delinquency. Tonight, I can even put away the issue of tattoos. Sleepless nights render me motionless as I ponder the thought of my children. My children mean everything to me. I have told many people and I will print it here: I will lay down my life for them. Children are gifts from God. He LOANS them to us only for a short time.
Think about that phrase. God LOANS us HIS children only for a short time. If you are reading this blog, then you are literate so you know what the sentence says. Yet I ask you, dear reader, do you UNDERSTAND it? Children need love as much love and support as possible. I am so thankful that I have a waterfall of people who love my children.
What about our spouses or those people transitioning through our lives? Those people should never be treated badly or with hatred but with kind words. I cannot tell a lie. Strenuous situations sometimes reveal the least humane of all hearts. Nonetheless, a heart is a heart and should be treated as such.
I am a bit subjective tonight.
In addition, I have a group of people I would like to thank. I will leave the shout outs to reality, but readers, be thankful for the angels that watch out for you each day. When I refer to angels, I may refer to your mother, sister, niece, and even the strangers that somehow lift you up daily. Never take them for granted. Each person and situation, I believe, has a purpose in our lives
With that I say peace out and much love to all!
Grief, for lack of a better phrase, can swallow someone whole until nothing exists within them but an empty shell. Loss of friends, family members, loved ones and even dreams easily push one into decay depending on the level of grief one faces.
When the song, “She Talks to Angels” says the “pain’s gonna make everything alright” or “there’s a smile when the pain comes”, perhaps that woman used needles but when you see a person inked over you may see someone unknowingly dealing with pain.
Don’t be so quick to judge.
The memory sees what it wants to believe. It hears it also, as in Rob Thomas singing with Santana in thesong, “Smooth”. At least for me that song breaks my heart every time I hear it and I will dance as if Dionysus himself were present. I know I should have let that bird fly years ago.
Hope doesn’t resurrect the dead. It never did.
My father passed away in October 2012 He was one of the strongest cats I know. The list of fallen loved ones continues.
However, this is not all about me. It is, but not so much. Sure, I need to grieve but move on to happiness as can others.
I hope sincerely I can thank those who helped me see how my eyes betrayed me. I still have much to do in this struggle. Thank God for my greatest advisor. A mother means so much.
We all know these cats, especially us ladies. They are the handsome false charmers that draw us in for a fall when we should have fell in love with the nerd, the friend. Why devote a column to the snakes in the grass?
The idea crossed my mind as I showed my kids how to detail a car today. I thought back to the days when I had to help my brother detail his sweet low rider truck. He taught me a lesson that goes far beyond detailing cars.
Open your car. Check the inner panels of your doors for grime and dirt. Are they filthy? Maybe or maybe not. I will always remember my brother saying that I could wash the outside of a car, but until the car was impeccable it wasn’t clean. People would see the hidden dirt, eventually.
When dealing with people, I have learned that no one is perfect. Someone will always have a bit of dirt hanging about. Those posers, the charmers that would have your heart and let it free fall, please look deeply into those dreamy eyes for lies and realize them.
In addition, a person might apply this to himself. Check your heart for dirt and grime and make sure your heart is as clean as you want it to be.
Responsibility and self-actualization are hell when trying to come up from the bottom God knows how many times. Put them together and you get one thing to hold onto: self-preservation.
Much love and peace.
This blog stands as a creative outlet but also serves the public what I have learned in my years of life. So many may scoff and say teacher, you do nothing and are covered with tattoos. Open your eyes, my public. There is more to life than drugs, alcohol, sex and vice.
Pain exists within this plane and I pity you who cannot see it. Another twist I have for you, so be patient!
When an intelligent person rises from mud and fails to rise because too much dirt is caught in her wings, she does not stand idly by, allowing her young to fall to the same fate. Should she sacrifice her heart, pride or soul, she will raise them to rise above the dirt they have known.
I ask you to tell me what struggle do you see? Not one knows the story fully, but I know my mother raised me to be strong. I will always have that, so question yours before you decide to play me wrong.
I wish each of you good luck in all that you do. In the meantime, don’t kick me when I’m down or it all comes back to you.
Believe me. I know.